The Reality of our Differences

Before you start to read the rest of this blog post, please understand that it’s not meant to be offensive but to address a certain matter that is destroying so many hearts and minds in our world. It is only meant to help us examine ourselves. So you may want to relax starting right now and brace yourself, because this will be a long post.

There is such sadness that overcomes my heart when I hear, see, or read profound hatred raging simply because of human differences. We live in a massive world filled with tremendous diversity. There are so many different cultures in our world and so many different opportunities to learn something new every day. Reality is we’re not all going to agree with each other. We’re not all going to just miraculously unite over every subject. That is truly how life is, but is it cause for such angry outbursts of hatred for our fellow human beings?

The truth of the matter is REGARDLESS of the color of our skin, the language we speak, where we live, where we may have come from, who we are, and all that’s associated with being a human being…WE ALL breathe the same air. We all live under the same massive ONE sky. It’s blood that flows through all of our veins, and one day…for all of us…it will stop. This is something we all know to be true, but so many of us fail to recognize these facts.

I have asked this question so many times, and it always leads to the same answer: What does hatred solve? Nothing. Nothing can possibly come from hatred but destruction. Hatred actively divides people and seeks to destroy everything that crosses its path. What people don’t seem to understand is that despite all of our many differences, we are actually more alike than we are different.

Just because you may disagree doesn’t mean that hatred should overtake your heart, mind, and soul. So many people in our world don’t even attempt to understand other people’s lives. How many of us sit on our own personal thrones and automatically think we’re better than someone else? What exactly is it that makes you better? Sure, there are certain things that may set you apart from your fellow human being because we’re all different in several ways…but what makes you better?

Is it your money? Your culture, maybe? Your talent? Perhaps it’s how smart you are? Could it be your good looks?

These are all things that just simply define what makes you different from your fellow human beings, but none of it is what makes you better. You can have all of these things, and if you’re a negative and awful person…you’re only helping to destroy the world around you.

You don’t have to agree with everything, but you should attempt to understand that there’s a whole world outside of yourself. It wasn’t just YOU that was created. This is not just YOUR world. You are one out of many, and just like you’re important, just like you have a special purpose to fulfill…so does everyone else. Everyone’s journey in life isn’t the same, but everyone is important regardless. Every single person has something special to offer this world if they so choose to offer it. There are people who may be different from you, but who also cry, laugh, hurt, eat, sleep, rejoice, fear, and have to survive the day they’re in just like you. Our world isn’t diverse by accident. It’s diverse on purpose, and if you have a problem with that fact…you’re causing yourself to carry a rather pathetic, sad, and useless heavy burden because everywhere you go…you’re going to find someone who is different from you.

I will say this one more time in closing: you don’t have to agree with everyone and everything—that’s your human right, but disagreeing is not cause for hatred. You don’t have to take disagreeing to such a senseless, destructive extreme.

AND…

Our world is massive. Don’t limit your mind to just the small area of where you are, because regardless of how big where you are is to you…it’s small in comparison to the entire world.

AND…

Be careful how you look down on others, because life is always changing. You never know who you may need. Just because life looks one way right now does not mean it will look the same way later on. Think about this: If you’re high on the mountain, don’t find joy in looking down on the people who are low in the valley. The people who are ‘low’ are capable of climbing that mountain, while the people who are up high on it are capable of falling from it. If you are in a nice position in life, you’re there to help others not to look down on them.

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8 thoughts on “The Reality of our Differences

  1. Your blog entry is definitely ‘food for thought’…people do tend to get too full of themselves without consideration for others. We tend to be in our universe of one, thinking that we’re all that…we’re not. You always have to think when we see our fellow man or woman looking ‘down and out’, there but for the grace of God go I. Let’s get down off our high horses and take a reality check. Or if we must continue to perch up there…at least reach down and pull someone else up.
    I have a blog series…come visit, if you like! Enjoy the upcoming weekend! Thank you for a thoughtful blog entry.

    • Victoria,

      Thank you for visiting Eighth Row Blog and also for taking the time to comment on this post today. It is unfortunate that so many of us have placed ourselves on such mighty thrones in our minds as well as our hearts. We focus so heavily on everything that makes us different and on everything we disagree on that we fail to even try to realize the beauty within each other. Perhaps it is pride that takes disagreement to a negative extreme, or it is certainly one having the tendency to be trapped in their personal universe as you have stated. I have had to learn this lesson, and I know that it is worth learning. So, I agree with you…let’s get down off our high horses and take a reality check or at least try to help someone else up! I enjoyed your response! Thank you so much, and may you enjoy the upcoming weekend as well.

  2. Here is a short poem that might fit this topic

    Us

    So many people view this world as
    Us versus Them
    One of the hardest lessons
    There is to learn
    Is that there is no Them
    There exists only
    Us

    Ed Roberts 8/20/10

    Of course I’ve written many more :)

    When we start to focus on how we are the same we can start to appreciate our differences as well.

    • Ed,

      You have managed to share in a short poem what took me an entire blog post to write about :) . Thank you for appropriately summing up this post with such a delicate, short, yet meaningful and profound original poem of yours. I also love your ending statement. I’m going to quote you on my facebook page, if you don’t mind. I think that’s an excellent quote for today. If I can fit it on twitter, I think I’ll put it there too! That’s how important of a message it is. Thank you so much for visiting! I enjoyed your response!

      For everyone: My facebook page is: http://www.facebook.com/tswilkins and my twitter page is: http://www.twitter.com/poettswilkins

  3. I think we all need to examine ourselves every now and then, because I think sometimes people don’t even realize what they’re doing and how they’re acting. If you act like that, hating people, looking down on someone, being jealous or whatever because you disagree with them or because they are not like you, that is really silly when you think about it. And to look down on someone is a dangerous thing. Because you never know when the shoe can be on the other foot. If we could all learn to agree to disagree and keep it respectful to each other that would be awesome.

    • Joyce,

      I love your response! It seems that people are so quick to turn to hatred when they cannot control a situation, or a person, or someone’s viewpoint. We all have our opinions and our beliefs, because we all have the right to have our personal viewpoint. No one can stop you from having that. However, it just surprises me how people act (especially adults) when someone doesn’t fit into their mold of how life should be, or if someone disagrees with them. There are just times when you have to stick to what you believe in, and agree to disagree without hatred. You don’t have to hate a person because you disagee with them. You’re right, to look down on someone is a dangerous thing! You never know who you’ll need in this life. Good times are not always guaranteed! Thank you for your insightful response!

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